Day 2 : Boys boys boys ?!

Happy Thanksgiving, all you Canadians! It's like absolutely FREEZING here! Honestly. I'm in my room, heater on blanket and sweater covered. Oh well. How was every one's Thanksgiving weekend!? Happy Columbus day to you Americans, btw !! Anyways, today, I went to the outlet mall outside of Calgary. The Cross Iron Mills Mall in Balzac (pronounced as ball - zack), and I bought a totally cute top from Forever 21! I love it! :P Anyhow, onto today's blog : BOYS .

Now, I'm positive that EVERYONE has liked a guy who either a) they never have a chance with, or b) they don't like you back. That feeling SUCKS! But girls, don't worry! Someone will come along for you in a while! Believe me, boys are the MOST confusing creatures wandering the Earth! No jokes, it's probably ROCKET SCIENCE. It's probably easier to read a stinkin' cat than to read a boy! Here is a true story :

She was a normal, average, slightly chubby teenager. But what the heck! She is in the awkward stage. You know, she is super smiley, and really nice to basically everyone she meets. Now, this girl, she has a ... obsession with white guys. She was a year younger than everyone in her class. No, she isn't the smartest person alive, but she just started school early. She's known this boy since she was in kindergarten, and she's been in love with him ever since then. They have been basically in each other's classes since then, up to grade 4. This girl had moved to Calgary Arts Academy, a sucky school in the south side of Calgary. She had missed him terribly, but eventually, she met Eden. He was your average skater dude, this was wayyyyyy back in her 'scrawny, anorexic' days. He had a head full of sandy brown hair, and the eyes as clear as an ocean. Problem was, he was hardly EVER at school. Now, her best friends had stayed in contact with Eden, while she hasn't. The following year, she had gained a few pounds, and she was totally aware of that. It all happened after she visited Hong Kong. Her friends had told her Eden liked her back, and she was shocked. Eden was a... very quiet guy, but was super sweet at the same time. So now, that she is in High School, she met a boy. His name is Vince. He wasn't born in Canada, and somehow, he dug a little hole in her life. He proclaims 'your pretty', 'your amazing' and all the other crap desperate boys throw at you. She, since then, started to not trust boys. Meaning, this boy, Vince, was 100% UNTRUSTWORTHY. He is horrible, a player and worse, a SNOB. Yup, a totally snob, a turn off in ALL girls.

Moral of that story? Never trust an untrustable boy, and NEVER get too close to them! So girls, what do you do when you encounter something like that? Well, you can try these out :
1) Just ignore the boy. He'll eventually move on.
2) Talk to a mutual friend, and try to figure out if he is or isn't trustable.
3) Have a clear idea of how you REALLY feel about him.
4) Stay friends. It'll be awkward, but hey, you have someone else who cares about you, right?
5) Find the guts to talk it out with him.
6) Move the heck on, sweetheart! It's hard, I know, but it's best for the long run
7) Try to act as if things were the way they were originally, and see how things go
8) Tell him how YOU, you alone, not your friends, but YOU, feel about him and his cheating ways
9) Tell him you need some room to think. Thinking it through a while can actually help you tell true from false feelings.
10) IF, you have totally thought about what it ACTUALLY feels for you (trustable, untrustable, security etc.) ONLY then, do you confront him with your feelings, but don't make him drive you NUTS. You'll eventually get annoyed with him, and IF something happens, you'll break it off, and BAM - a lost friendship.

So, what do you do IF you like a guy, but don't know how to approach him? Well, try these out :
1) Be yourself. Boys want to see how you actually are!
2) Try talking to them
3) If you have a good sense of who you are, you MAY try hinting. The more subtle, the better.
4) Don't seem too eager!! Desperateness is the WORSE thing a guy can see in you
5) DO NOT, crowd him day after day. That results in clingyness. BUT, if he likes it, by all means, go clingy!
6) Talk to him through a mutual friend.
7) 'Pretend-to-not-see-him-when-you-actually-can'. If you kinda catch his eye a little, quickly divert it, OR, if your friend is close to him, wave hi, he'll think your waving to him, which brings up the 'She-is-a-nice-girl' look in you.
8) Be mysterious. Walk past his desk, and pretend to not notice him. He'll think, "Why isn't she talking to me? Why isn't she as friendly as everyone say she is?" THAT might force him to talk to you... you enver know! ;)
9) Be-friend them, then slowly go on from there.
10) My favorite, it IS awkward, but it usually works : Have a friend set you guys up! You never know, he might end up liking you after that. UNLESS he is dating/hates you, then I strongly reccomend #2&9 first.

Don't know how to tell your friend? Well, here are a few examples that I have used in the past :
1) 'Hey, you know so and so? Yeah, he's a cutie! We should all hang out together soemtime!"
2) If you have a lot of guts, try this one "Hey, wanna set me and ______ up? He's a cutie/hot/whatever he is to you."
3) "Is ______ single?" If they say no, "Oh, darn. I want to meet his girlfriend. Let's go see a movie!" and drag a guy friend with you. If they say yes, "Really? I totally wish I can hang out with him! Can I meet him?"

These are just a few examples, I myself, have only tried like... at least 2 of the other examples above (meaning talking to a guy and what to do). For a shy girl, the golden rule, is to : BREAK OUT OF YOUR SHYNESS, AND TALK TO THE BOY ALREADY!! For a ballsy girl, a) ASK HIM OUT, or b) ask if he wants to join you and your friends for a movie, and he can invite his friends too.

Well, I hope these help you! (: Comment me some questions, tips, and perspectives on these! I'd love to hear back from you! You may also contact me at www.twitter.com/yonaarain_ and tell me you read my blogs, and you have a few questions! I'll be more than glad to follow you, and DM you. You may email me at lil_cute_angel_2_972@hotmail.com or Facebook message me at www.facebook.com/YonaaRain. I'd love to reply you (: . My blogs will come in whenever I have a good blog idea!

God bless you and have an amazing week!
-Yonaa (:
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